Over the last few years I have come to appreciate Fred Rogers more than I did as a child. The combination of entering into parenthood and exploring Emotionally Healthy Spiritually together with my fellow staff members at Westbrook opened my eyes to what kind of treasure Mister Rogers Neighborhood actually is. He very intentionally and gently walks children through tough situations that they may face in their lives. Everything from being mad to your parents divorcing or even experiencing death.
One of the most wonderful things about Fred Rogers, as well, is the amount peace with which he carries himself. You never get the impression that he is upset or angry with anyone. He always seems to find a way to connect with other people no matter how different they are. From what I’ve heard, this was not only true of him on the show, but in real life as well. It strikes me that this example of peace is precisely the one that we need to reflect on during advent.
My daughter has a lot of things on her Christmas list. She’s almost 5 and it seems like several times a week, she comes up with something new to add to her wish list. She’ll say something like, “Daddy, I want to add this to my Christmas list, I want it sooooo bad. I hope I get it.” I, of course, know exactly what she’s getting from us. Occasionally, she is actually going to get the thing she is wishing for, but many times we have opted not to buy that specific toy. Most of us can remember what this was like. We had things that we were wishing for and hoping for, but never got.
One of the words that is often reflected on during the time of Advent is Hope. It’s a word that we use frequently to describe our wishes. Like my daughter who is hoping for specific presents or when I am hoping that the Colts will be able to win enough games to make the playoffs, we are desiring a favorable outcome that we are unsure of. In terms of Advent, however, the idea of hope is much different when viewed through the lens of scripture.
In light of my recent post on Christian leadership, I decided that today is an appropriate day to again reflect on the how the church behaves differently than the world. On the church’s calendar, today is Maundy Thursday. This day derives its name from the Latin word that is the root of our word mandate. It’s called this because of Jesus’ words in John, “a new command I give to you” or a new “mandate.” This mandate comes after his washing of the disciples feet. Jesus is displaying that his style of leadership is built on love and service, not on power. With this “new mandate,” Jesus instructs his disciples to do the same to one another and then says that this is how the world will know that they are his disciples, by their love (John 13:34-35). Continue reading →